Facts, Ideas and Tips are golden nuggets of information that will give you insight
on various facets of career and balance.
Golden
Nugget How we adjust our lives to fit our values, beliefs and goals is important.
Yet if the values, beliefs and goals are in conflict then you will be out of balance. Stop and think about what you
value most in life. If you are not placing that before other goals than reaccess what you are doing and why.
FACT
FEAR (false evidence appearing
real) is the leading contributor to people not following their dreams. Many people think its money, lazyness or lack
of determination or talent. These are extremely important factors, however, if you stop the dream before it can be thought
out, then you do not have time to be lazy nor be determined. FEAR is the opposite of FAITH (Fellowship Allowing Increased
Trust in Him).
IDEA/TIP
Make four rows. In first row write Actions (what you will do to deal with any conflict) In row two
write FEARS (what you are afraid of) next to the value or dream if you have any fear about it, in the fear column you will
state what it is. Third row write VALUES (moral standards, beliefs or what you hold dear) last row write DREAMS
(what you want to do, be or achieve. View example A below). See for yourself what is in conflict and make a plan to overcome
your fear to gain confidence and balance toward what you are aiming to do. Need help? Call me and set up a
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Example A
ACTIONS
FEARS
Values
DREAMS
Set up college fund
Spend time daily to talk with my family
Talk
to someone about my business plan
Not being there for my family because of my business.